forget everything else you’ve heard.
disregard every other theory you’ve read.
ignore anything you’ve heard from any other relationship pundit.
fellas, you need to know that it’s all about money.
that’s it.
it’s not about sex, or, more specifically, whichever sexual acts she’s willing to do for you. she swallowed? so what. get in line. take a number. you hit it in one of the men’s dressing rooms at the banana republic? sh-t, so did clinton portis in 2002. get over yourself.
it’s not about time either. as we previously discussed, many women will spend time with a guy they have no intentions on ever doing anything remotely physical with, sans the hunchback hug (the teasingly platonic hug where women hunch their backs forward and stick their behind out, insuring there won’t be any type of crotch-area contact) at the end of the night when you drop her off at her f-buddy’s efficiency at her apartment.
she let you meet her girlfriends? who cares. she just wanted to prove to them that she found someone worse in spades than she is. plus, 15 percent of them aren’t going to be around this time next week year anyway.
she let you meet her family? so what. she’s just tired of hearing the “when are you getting married?” chorus at every family outing, and figures that being seen with your delusional ass might buy her a good 6 months of question quelling.
you’re on her top 4 on myspace? great. so is carl thomas. and tom.
she told you she loved you? love schmove. when she said it she was probably under the influence of dgp (“damn good pipe”), and that “confession” definitely ain’t admissible in any court.
no, fellas, the only way you can be absolutely sure that a woman is definitely into you is if she’s willing to give you money. not borrow. not loan. give. give, with absolutely no plans to ever get it back. this is the ultimate test…the relationship wonderlic exam. if she’s willing, she adores you…if she’s not, she doesn’t. it’s that simple
you could even make the argument that (***editors note***. the champ isn’t making this argument, just stating that the argument can be made. carry on) money is a woman’s most valuable possession. i’m not implying that all women are bronze excavators (“gold-diggers” is a bit too cliched for my taste), but let’s just say that it’s much, much, much easier to separate a man from miscellaneous cash than a woman.
you don’t believe me?
okay. tommorrow, ask a woman how many people she’s had any type of sexual relationship with. (***editors note***. don’t do this.) then, ask her how many of those guys she would have given 500 dollars to if they needed it. i’d bet my stimulus check that at least 70 percent of the time, those numbers won’t match up.
let’s break it down again:
you met her stepmom? so what. she hates her stepmom, and she just brought you around because she knows she’ll be allergic to your cologne.
she let you make a tape? hmmm…obviously you haven’t checked the homegrown thread at bgol the contents of that shoebox underneath her bed
your checking account is a bit short this month because you had to help pay for your aunt’s funeral, and your girl gave you $550 to help out with your mortgage? she’s already picked the names of your first three grandchildren.
you don’t have to believe any of this i guess..unless, of course, you enjoy being right.
—the champ
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Duly noted….
*sheds a tear for the homegrown thread*
*hands killa a tissue*
btw, “killa” and “tissue” probably should never be in the same sentence
I agree. That’s like “crip” and “ice cream cone”.
Strong men also cry….strong men also cry!
Or “Suge Knight” and “Elmo”…
Unless the sentence is: “In a rage, Suge Knight held Elmo upside down from a 10-story building when the muppet decided he wanted out of the Sesame Street set of the Bloods.”
Again, you speak truth my brother. I did the math and you’re right… I’ve never given a man money unless I was imagining the wedding. Good post!
lol…the “wedding” or the “marriage”?
nevermind. dont answer that. just being the devils advocate
You know it’s the former.
That should be another topic.
agreed. though i think we mentioned this somewhere on a post or maybe it just came up in the comments.
I only plan on doing it once, so definitely the marriage… but I’m female, so sue me.
Wow I will remember this little test next time…
Where is that pic from?
i googled “women and money”, lol
Seriously???? You googled women and money and got two sistas standing back to back over bags w/ “$” on them? Wow.
lol…after maybe 4 or 5 pages of pics
Thanks for clearing things up for me. For a minute I thought you clicked “I’m Feeling Lucky.” Although, that would have been priceless.
This is an interesting point. Silly me, I loaned a guy I was dating some money and he never paid me back. I was a nicer chick back then. I learned that lesson, never again will I loan a guy some money…..unless he means a lot to me. A LOT, a lot. I barely loan money to my own family….
learned that lesson too too well.
ah yes, learned by experiencing, put my name on that list too.
me too… i told him if i didn’t get the loan back i would be short on a bill and the bum didn’t give me my money back.. THAT’S why i won’t loan a dude any money! LOL
“i told him if i didn’t get the loan back i would be short on a bill and the bum didn’t give me my money back.. THAT’S why i won’t loan a dude any money! LOL”
no…thats why you don’t deal with punk-ass dudes
In my case it was a chick. I will not use the term punk-ass though. . .
“In my case it was a chick. I will not use the term punk-ass though. . .”
why not?
Length of relationship, how far things went, hopes that I may see some of that cash sometime in the next few years. . .
LOL i hear ya Liz..
you know the old saying..”Burn me once..shame on you..Burn me twice im takin you to small claims court! lol
Aja, my female cousin loaned her bf out of high school some money to get his teeth fixed (girl dont ask) when they had graduated, she did not get that debt payed off till after a court judgement a year or tow after she graduated from college. Needless to say lesson learned.
That is Nuts!! LOL
i know a chick who gave this dude like 800 bucks, found out he lied about his entire life and tried to take the ninja to small claims court…
…only to find out she didn’t even know who he actually was.
moral of the story: don’t sleep with men you meet at weddings who tell you that they’re the friend of somebody’s cousin’s best friend.
then again, she was in love. after 2 days. maybe that’s the moral. don’t fall in love in 2 days.
LOL!!!
You are insane!
thanks. i try
Notwithstanding one being an exotic dancer or pimp…you really may be explaining the true theory of the Matrix here or solving whatever was in that suitcase in Pulp Fiction.
call me marcellous and sh-t
i do a lot of legal anaylsis during the day and the word ‘notwithstanding’ has become the word i hate the absof*ckinlute most in the english language.
mostly b/c it took me forever to understand what it meant and why they just didnt use another word.
by the way, that rant was sponsored by “Angry Black Men With Jobs”
Hey….truth is truth!
PREACH my brothas, preach!
you’re right. truth definitely is…truth
Yes.
Funny how a woman who was going to visit and write me letters had I gone to jail for doing something stupid vanished for 6 weeks when I asked her to loan me money for the light bill while I awaited payment on my new job. The lights did stay on after a couple of plasma extractions, but still…
“plasma extractions”
damn…talk about you blood money. thats…wow
Champ *patting The Champ on the back* never a truer word was spoken then what is written here. *wiping away tears of pride* you done good son.
**snatching tissue from killa and handing it to ana b**
ewwww….why you giving me a tissue someone else used? Maybe if y’ll weren’t flingin boxex of tissues at your girl’s head you might have enough to go around. I mean I appreciate the sentiment but damn can I get my own tisue.
we’re green here at vsb.com. we believe in recycling everything
that’s just nasty…
Singing: “I ain’t saying she’s a gold-digger…but she ain’t messing with no broke N*gga”
lol, I need to grab my Ipod and listen to that jam!
Okay — so I have to say that I agree. My dude knew I was down for him when I saw he was having a hard time paying his $345.96 cell phone and I took it upon myself without telling him of calling Verizon and paying half of the bill for him. Of course I had no idea they send a confirmation email/text to the customer versus the person who pays the bill so he found out rather quickly I had made the payment. His ego/pride complained at first…then quickly switched to being ever so appreciative.
Fellas, if you have a woman willing to help you financially without expectations of getting the money back…she’s a keeper! lol.
$345.96 cell phone bill??
surprised by that amount?
my monthly cell phone bill is like $280 … my last was close to $700. But there was a phone on that one.
cheryl honey, upgrade your plan. there’s no reason for a $280 cellphone bill unless you’ve got the 2000 minute plan, 3 lines and make calls overseas.
the only times i ever had a phone bill that high were when (a) my **** ex knew he didn’t have to pay the bill and decided to talk to his boys all day; and (b) when i called the U.S. from canada (b/c i thought canada is international, but not a $275 cellphone bill worth of international,).
I have 3000 daytime minutes, unlimited nights and weekends, unlimited texting and unlimited innanets. 6 phones share that plan (so there is the charge for the additional lines). I believe the plan rate is $159.99 plus all the extra shit I have.
Then I have one phone that is under an unlimited plan (unlimited everything) for $99.
We have never gone over our minutes.
So thats a total of 7 lines.
ok. *that* makes sense. i was about to say: if that’s for a line or two, you need to upgrade or stop talking so much… lol.
Yeah I got phones out the ass.
I also have no good reason why I have said phones.
unplug, detach, media & communications blackout. all that accessability to your subconcious can’t be good for you. i know, i know fuck me. right? who do i think i am n shit?
what the hell kind of SUPER PHONE do you have? My bill is like 95 and I cringe everytime I click the “pay now” button!
He was in Mexico and texting me. LOL
ooh.. that international texting and GPRS is no joke. i uploaded *ONE* 3MB photo to flickr.com when i was in anguilla and it cost $51.
let me ask.. are you all sprint customers? you can still get the $100 everything plan and still walk away with a bill of $280!
I’m a sprint customer, but under sprint business.
my phone bill is so much because of the # of lines i have.
regular sprint is wack … sprint business is magnificent.
I have good ol’t-mobile and my bill is usually under $100 every month. My dude has the unlimited everything plan for $125 but when he’s out of the country (Cancun)…it’s a wrap.
Your post is on point. I have only offered to give money to one guy my whole life (he refused because of his pride), but he was the only one that I imagined a future with. It’s hard for women to part with money and if they do, then he’s the one.
“(he refused because of his pride)”
this is another future blog topic, btw
Ummm, I know this is off subject, but while we’re mentioning future topics…
“Intercourse is a great way to get pregnant, but for most women, it is NOT the most efficient way to have an orgasm.”
I read this the other day and it’s the truth! PLEASE please blog on this. Enlighten the masses!
um….why dont you enlighten us? i’m interested to hear this
I think it would be clearer if ‘vaginal’ was inserted before ‘intercourse’.
(…I’m going to have fun watchin yall find the myriad of puns/jokes in that sentence…)
But yes, I think men would really benefit in knowing that vaginal intercourse alone is not nearly as exciting for the women as it is to the dude. You’re missing the key element in good sex…clitoral stimulation. Without getting too graphic. But hells bells, anal sex was mentioned on here earlier, so perhaps I should leave the subtlety at the door? I repeat my nomination for this to be a future topic!! “How to Lay Good Pipe-age!” Or some such.
Maybe for that topic VSB can have a guest blogger of the female type. Men sometimes forget a woman even HAS a clitoris.
Spot On!
I have to agree. 100%.
Ok, I have to agree with all this. BUT, lest we not forget that society has taught us that women are supposed to be taken care of and that men are not supposed to ask for money. I think the money gesture isn’t poignant because it’s kind, but because it is out of the norm and out of the comfort zone of most women. Like “I care enought about you to not only trust you, but to eschew society’s silly rules”. I think the male equivalent would be crying in front of his lady, or (if he isn’t usually found in the kitchen) cooking an elaborate meal or going to get you some tampons…weak examples, but you know what I mean.
I’m still on my “fresh outta college and slumming in NYC” grind, but if a fella meant something to me, I’d open up my heart and wallet in a heartbeat.
Co-Sign!
i agree. its notable because it goes against all societal expectations of gender roles.
honestly though, i dont know if theres a male equivalent.
possible equivalents
-actually listening to her talk about her day and giving her feedback
-letting her drive your car and you aren’t drunk
-holding her purse in front of your people
just brainstorming
-holding her purse in front of your people
good answer good answer *does family fued clap*
I have had guy friends hold my purse, so I don’t think that’s a big deal. I was in China last year and it’s typical for men to hold their woman’s purse while they shop, at the park, etc.
i still don’t think any of those are analogous. we need to think of something a bit heavier
Yeah it’s heavier than those….I am stumped! There are weightier examples (i.e. a man staying at home to raise the kids so the woman can work) and lighter ones (all the ones we named thus far) but nothing quite even…
hm.. i know dudes that do that for their favorite jumpoffs, or women that they want to be inside
ive got nothing for ya
The male equivalent is when a man lets you have the last piece of food. Men love to eat and don’t share their food, but if he lets you have the last piece then he’s into you.
i fear (fear – metaphorically speaking) that this is an old wives tale. if i smell a test I’ll fail it on purpose whether failing it lives up to a streotype or cliche or not. no big deal if i don’t smell test. women are notorious for traditional relationship tests. such bullshit. ill take the zero. name rank and serial # thats all u get when i smell test.
i agree but on things i could afford. a drink, meal, taxi ride home… not a damn phone bill! on sprint terms, i can’t afford my own!
I thnk the going to get tampons and/or pads, or picking up her bc refill is pretty accurate. I mean you have to truly LOVE your woman to risk running into anyone with a plastic bag with some tampax in it, and I dont know how many men would willingly and not begrudgingly just pick up some sanitary products for their woman.
“I dont know how many men would willingly and not begrudgingly just pick up some sanitary products for their woman.”
actually though, i remember a comedian saying (i forgot who) that men should enjoy buying tampons, because its the one thing you can purchase that pretty much lets everybody in the store know that you’re getting some
Funny. . . that’s how I always saw it. You see a dude holding an D&G or DK purse you know he’s getting some high class *meow*
It’s funny how the silly grins go away when she comes and takes your arm. Then you got dudes biting their fingers and shit.
He should also be happy to buy them (if they are needed) because its a good sign she isn’t knocked up.
Damn. I guess I’ve never really been into anyone cus I’ve never given anyone money. Paid for things randomly–a home inspection when he had to be out of town, Starbuck’s for his momma nem when he left his wallet at home. But this here you talkin’ bout?? Give? Naw. Nerp. My mind doesn’t even work like that unless we’re legally bound (married). Further, I don’t know any man who would ask or accept a flat out cash–here ya go boo– offer.
the whole money giving thing is so potentially awkward that it definitely has to be someone you’re down for the cause with. you really can’t do this with anyone else. the woman wont feel comfortable doing it and most men won’t accept it
I can not disagree with one word of this post. I woman who will part with her money (and not keep tabs on what time your check gets direct deposited into your account) for you is a woman who is down for you. But also keep in mind, this same type of woman might stay with you through a lot of BS (ie-baby mama drama, family issues, your unemployment, maybe even infedelity) is likely to leave your ass the instant you do somethiing that will eff up HER money.
One woman put it this way,’You can play with my mind and toy with my emotions but Do Not fuck with my money’
Damn that post had a lot of typos. Forgive me. But you folks get the drift.
lol…i got it
I can’t see it. Some women must really be extra nice b/c I couldn’t imagine handing some dude money like that. I’d be thinking, what the heck are you doing that you can’t handle your own biz??? I wouldn’t be thinking marriage, I’d be looking @ the front door.
“I’d be thinking, what the heck are you doing that you can’t handle your own biz???”
unless you’re the sultan of brunei, everybody hits hard times. its not question of your character or anything….just circumstance
happy b-day btw
For me it IS a question of character. I ended my last relationship in part b/c of issues like this.
You walk into dude’s place & he has dvds stacked to the ceiling, Xbox 360, Playstation 1-3, all the latest technology, but when he runs into a situation where he needs $550 he needs ‘help’ b/c he has no savings. I personally make sacrifices so that I can put something aside for a rainy day but this cat just spends his money how he wants and expects a hand-out on a rainy day? That doesn’t sit well w/ me at all and surely doesn’t scream husband material!
Oh, and thank you!
Happy birthday!
Thanks!
nah, sometimes folks really are that broke, esp. if you’re young and you don’t have the extra cash cushion that comes with age and income.
now i agree that you need to put some money aside. but what if the accident pops up while you’re working on your stash?
what if, for example, some uninsured dude comes along and totals your car?
or, as happened to me, your ex’s dad dies and he doesn’t own a suit that fits (he was a blue collar dude)?
but that “i spent my money on cigarettes and beer. lemme hold $5″ mess? that’s just triflin’.
“what if, for example, some uninsured dude comes along and totals your car?”
My insurance would cover it. Otherwise I’d be on the El until I could afford another ride.
I’m not slinging a high salary. And it’s not about being blue collar or white collar.
At 26 I just couldn’t see myself seriously involved w/ a guy who’d need me to give him money for a suit.
“My insurance would cover it. Otherwise I’d be on the El until I could afford another ride.”
okay, and if someone offered to help you with a down payment on a new ride, you wouldn’t accept it? would that make you a person of questionable character?
i don’t disagree that in general triflin and broke run together. if they’re *looking* for a hand-out, that’s bad form and that’s *not* what the VSBs are talking about.
but sometimes the person is mostly responsible, and an unexpected expense or event puts them in a tight spot.
kiesha, sometimes unexpected stuff just happens, that no amount of planning or saving will be able to prevent. if you truly care about somebody, and see a future with that dude, i honestly don’t think you’d have a problem with helping out.
well, at least, i hope you wouldn’t
hahaha! love it!
Completely unrelated…
PANAMA: Do you think that having a white valedictorian will have any impact on the dudes at Morehouse?? Will it make the fellas graduating in the class of 2008 less arrogant to know that in a sea of Black men, this white boy still managed to come out on top??? And what of the salutatorian? Are Morehouse men pissed at him for coming in second place??
Oh yeah, I got jokes!
ROTFLMAO!!!!!! I hope this is the chin check they needed. PAWNED! TREATED! SUNNED! FAIL!
Hmm…see, I have to wonder why this is a chin check. He’s the valedictorian at Morehouse. True. And I’m proud of him. Glad to call him my Morehouse brother.
I’m gonna start calling him JRS-One. Cuz if he had gone to Howard he’d be on some, “I’m number 1, 2, 3, 4, and 5…” instead of just number 1.
pwnd.
BOOOOOOOOOOOOOo
This is like the hot-topic amongst the HBCU crowd lately. Have you any idea how many emails I’ve received about this with the word “thoughts?” following?
You know, I’ll say this. For me, it doesn’t mean much. Every white cat that we’ve had at Morehouse (there was a few when I was there) were exceptionally smart dudes who opted out of the Ivies to come to the ‘House. Not sure why and I never asked. They were super smart cats who came and excelled. In fact, I think that when I graduated, one of our white dudes was number 3 or something, and he was a damn physics major. I think this will have more of an impact on every other HBCU-alum since y’all ninjas love taking shots at the throne.
It’s okay. I still went to Morehouse and most other folks didn’t. Less arrogant. What does that even mean?
Also…I look at like this…when we all step foot on campus for the first time, we all have a chance to be the valedictorian. Clearly, Josh Packwood knew that and embraced it. And did the damn thing. Yeah, the Black students got pwnd, however…
…they still graduated from the ‘House.
And that makes the world better for the rest of you all.
Truer words have never been written.
we try
Well. . .how about this:
This sentence is false.
I usually agree with many of the theories presented by you guys. But this post right here is hands-down the most accurate and profound thing I’ve ever read on here. It’s 100% true. Even though I’m not the type to really ask a woman for money, there has been occassions when a chick has broke bread and that sentiment was definitely a sign that she genuinely cares about me and our relationship and that she would damn near do the unthinkable for the sake of my (and hers) happiness.
I wouldn’t neccessarily say it pertains to certain loans, but if she’s willing to give or offer cash with no strings attached, that’s a wonderful woman right there.
*tears up a little*
“*tears up a little*”
damn…everybody’s crying in here today. must be the pollen.
“But this post right here is hands-down the most accurate and profound thing I’ve ever read on here.”
thanks and shit
This post is so on point.
Women will bail you out when they love you.
And I mean that both literally and figuratively…
… which is definitely saying something because let her girl ask to borrow $300 without a clear sign that she’ll get it back and it probably ain’t happenin’ cap’n.
A few years back I would have added “she lets you f* her in the a*” along with it, but now anal is the new head – most women will do it eventually.
“but now anal is the new head ”
LOL
Whoa… anal is the new head? I don’t think that is anymore true than the “30 is the new 20″ statement.
That whole “30 is the new 20″ is out of context because everybody’s not turning 30…
The whole “is the new” indicator is simply meant to signify a trend. Turning 30 is not a trend. That’s life, whereas, head was a trend that’s almost always expected.
Anal is a trend that is slowly but surely becoming a mainstay. Have you seen porn lately? It’s gone from a fetish to a feature. Plus I’m sure that some of the guys here have experienced some…
tainted pleasures…
(I couldn’t resist.)
Basically I’m saying that anal has gone the way of virginity and fellatio when it comes to things women are saving for their husband or someone they are “truly in love with”…
You make a good argument Deviant-san. I stand defeated….props. just don’t let it happen again! LOL!
*dead at…”anal is the new head”…
I cannot say I haven’t…but definitely won’t ever again…so I guess you’re right…but STILL dead at it…too funny!
“anal is the new head”
another t-shirt
thats so funny, youre right
*emrges from shadows (in all black)…walks center stage (under single spotlight)…taps MIC…clears throat*
She was once ME…
for a man that made my SOUL HOLLER!!! Lets just leave the figure at…
AT LEAST TWENTY FIVE HUNDRED DOLLARS!!!
*backs away from MIC and checks bank balance for stimulus check!*
why were you lurking in the shadows?
I could add so much more to this. But yall already know too much of my personal shit.
But I sat here and thought about it while preparing financial statements. outta all the men I messed with (that sounds like a lot, huh?) only one got money. his ass didn’t even have to ASK i volunteered that shit like i had a hundred dollabill tree outside.
my son is money hungry too. my daughter will ask for a dollar and ill interrogate her about what its for. my son will ask to go to cyberwokky and ill toss him $60 no problem. something isnt right there. lemme go prep somemore statements and mull this over.
cheryl,
that might have more to do with the mommy’s boy\daddy lil girl relationship thing. i know a ton of people that have this type of relationship where the mom doesnt get along well with daughter but treats (spoils) the son like he is a prince.
Right – I mean both of my kids are spoiled (spoiled ass rotten) … but I’m sure some it also has to do with the fact my daughter is only 7 whereas my son is 13.
But I am sure that most def the mommy’s boy thing plays a lot into it.
You hit the nail right on the head. You done spoke the truth.
(catchin da spirit)
lol…we’ve had alot of holy-ghosting going on in here today. I thought sunday was two days ago
“bronze excavators.” this goes up next to “eclectic teeth.” above that.
I agree. I work hard for my money. I bust balls for my money. I’m also just above poor. If it’s more than 20 dollars and I offer it to you — even if you dont take it — you mean something to me, dearly.
and I call that the “cousin hug”
^^I call it the church hug… Lord knows that I don’t want Deacon So-n-so trying to cop a feel (ya’ll know that some of them do try).
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This post is the truth! Very Smart Brothas indeed.
This is truely the truth but I would like to add more to your theory. A woman is NOT going to give a man she adores/truly loves if she knows he doesn’t feel the same for her.
“A woman is NOT going to give a man she adores/truly loves if she knows he doesn’t feel the same for her.”
hmmmm….i dont know about that. maybe you should change that to “a smart woman”
Man…I’ve still never been in love then. But I already knew that…but now I really, really know! I agree that this is one of those wow-you-really-are-a-smart-brotha posts! Good looking, Champ.
“I agree that this is one of those wow-you-really-are-a-smart-brotha posts!”
on a scale of 1-10, how difficult was it for you to say that?
1…when it’s right, it’s right. You’re the one who likes to be difficult for argument’s sake. Trust, I’m a blog groupie for a reason…about 2 years and still proudly riding your blog-o-nuts. Not cause I think you’re a dummy.
Honestly, I have no quarrel with this. I mean, I don’t want to loan/give money to ANYONE (friends, family, a man) because of some frivolous bullshit. It’s not good for relationships and I am by no means balling.
So yeah, I’m discerning about $$.
I’d like to add: Driving my car. Might not be as serious as $$, but when a woman gives a man her car keys… to go drive somewhere WITHOUT HER… well you’re in there, pal. ESPECIALLY if the guy has points on his license (or none at all!).
“Honestly, I have no quarrel with this”
i’m glad you don’t have any quarrels with us. i’m not in a quarreling mood right now
shooot: i’d *give* a dude a G than let him drive my car.
$1000 means my cable will have to get cut for a few months and i’ll need to brown bag it.
but if you eff up my ride, you done effed with my money *AND* my time. now i’ve got to come up with $1000+ for a repair plus i’m without my car for at least a week. (learned that the hard way.)
then if you have *really* effed it up, that means i have to go into debt for some b.s. that wasn’t even my fault. and if you hit another car? you have messed up my insurance and possibly caused me to get sued. unh-unh homie. here. take $1K and get your own ride…lol.
@tiffany Been there, done that…he f’d up my ride, over $2,000 worth of damage done, f’d up the other person’s ride, he lied about his license being good (it was suspended), my ins went thru the roof, me and MVA had drama…etc. It was better for me to pay him just to get him outta of my life.
3 things you don’t mess with…my job, my car and my child
Does filling up his tank with my company gas card count? If so I guess he’s the one LOL.
lol…it does. anything that effects your balance or your job status falls under this umbrella
I guess I don’t need to say it… but f*ck it. This sh*t righcheah… is the realest sh*t you ever wrote!!
thanks and sh*t. you know what though, i’m actually surprised that noone disagreed. when i posted this, i expected at least 20-40% of the commentors to say they thought i was wrong.
Champ,
This is my first time posting here and I have to say this entry is so on point. I’m very funny about money and usually don’t loan it out. I’m not going to lie, I NEVER give away money, not even to my best friend. A guy can meet my parents, hang out, and even travel with me but if I’m not willing to give him money then I know that I’m not in love with him. Money is a very sensitive topic and no woman wants to feel as though she is being pimped for her hard earned dollars, therefore if she meets a guy that she loves, then giving him money isn’t a big deal. Many of us will consider it an investment.
To date I have not given any guy money LOL.
“I NEVER give away money, not even to my best friend.”
i have a question for the ladies. does the “not ever offering money” thing extend to your girlfriends as well, or just men? for instance, would you be more inclined to help out a close female friend who’s in a jam than the dude you’re in a relationship with?
I’ve “loaned” $$ to a couple of men I wasn’t all that into. So I have to disagree with this post. I’m nice. I did not get paid back but never expected to. I hate to see someone stress about $$. If
i can help, I will. (Now don’t yall go askin me for a loan!)
i think the key to what he was saying is GIVE
if you thought you were gonna get it back it doesnt count
I guess you missed the part where I said, “never expected to”. I never once asked for the $$ back.
It may sound like some old school pimpin’ but if yo9u can get a womans pocket you can always get her pu$$y